dis is how u knw it is real..

loving someone is not about grand, big gestures. it is about paying attention.

it is choosing to learn them. their habits. the moods. their weird taste in music. u play the songs they like even if u'd never queue  it urself. u eat wat comforts them, even it is too sweet or too spicy for ur own liking.

u watch the reel they send - even if u r alrdy seen it - bcoz they tot of u when the hit "share".

u listen when they speak about thgs dat matter to them, even when u dun fully understand. even they themselves dun giv a flyin fcuk about ur story. for u think u dun need to. u r there. and dats enuff. u start to notice wat makes them light up. u rmbr it. u look for ways to add more of it into the life u r building together.

u learn how they like their drink. wat gets under their skin. wat helps them off sleepin. u pick up on the lil details dat most ppl miss - and u carry them wit u,

to love some is to keep discovering them, layer by layer. not bcoz u hav to, but bcoz u want to. bcoz knwg them deeper is its on kinda joy.